The Moment of Silence
Saturday, I got a call from my hockey teammate Carl. He asked me if i was supposed to be carpooling with another teammate, Mike (Mike and I live pretty close and he hitched a ride to the last game with me). Anyway, since I didn’t hear back from Mike, I told Carl "I guess that’s not gonna happen"-or something like that. Carl takes a few breaths and then tells me that Mike DIED earlier that same day. I was in complete shock… and still am.
They don’t know all the details but i was just told that he was playing volley ball Saturday morning and had some sort of seizure and died. It’s very shocking and sad.
So, driving to yesterday’s game was a little strange knowing that just the week before I was doing the ride there with Mike. Just before the game started Sunday, the rink owner was there and made an announcement about our teammate and they did "the moment of silence" thing. Another teammate spoke some kind words and was hoping the rest of us might say something. Tough stuff… I opted not to talk…i was having a hard enough time keeping my contacts in by this point.
None of us really had our heads in the game and we got smashed 6 to 0… Mike would have probably said something like "It’s good to know that some things haven’t changed"…
I wasn’t really sure how to begin this post but I’m sad to say the "categories" are under "Hockey, Friends, and Death"… I hope to never mix any of those again any time soon.
I found a post from a few years ago with a photo of me and Mike. He was too young to go and will be missed.

My dearest Bob, I am so very sorry about your loss….
Life can be so unfair sometimes…
Hugs,
Steph
i feel mostly for his family..i’m sure it’s not easy for them…still shocking stuff
I am sorry to hear about your friend. Just a few weeks ago one of my good friends, 14 year old son died. He felt sick on Thursday and died on Saturday. This was a shook to the whole community here, We are a small town and his parents had a business here and knows everyone. His dad has always coached the kids in football, baseball, and basketball. What was amazing was to go to the ball field and be able to feel him there all around us even though he was not there anymore. The Rec department had all of the boys from all of the league’s go on the field hold hands and HAVE A MOMENT OF SILENCE…. Except in that moment of silence all you could hear was weeping. It was so hard to watch my son be a part of that and at that moment I realized that I think we all EACH DAY of our LIVES need to take a MOMENT OF SILENCE, because in that small amount of time so many things become clear to us… But yet we seem to go back to the REAL LIFE so fast! Hang in there!
Traci
yeah..those “moments of silence” sure are tough sometimes…
sorry about your friend’s loss as well …going at 14 is WAY TOO young…hell..even 70 seems young to me!
Hey Bob.
I’m so sorry to hear about your friend. It’s hard when someone close to your age passes. It hits a little close to home. I hope that things get better soon.
Hugs!
and the older i get, the more this sort of stuff happens…eek…all part of “life”…the bad part